Becoming You
Thursday, September 9, 2010 at 10:00AM
I had a day last week where controversy entered my otherwise peaceful existence. Try as I might I let myself get caught up in the anger and when that happens nothing good comes of it.
You'll never hear me say that I am perfect... and I don't want to be.
My work life…that corporate world that I left behind… played to my strengths. I was asked to do the jobs no one else wanted to…and that meant that I had to be tough (or so I thought.) If only I had read “How to Win Friends and Influence People” my life might have been less um… volatile.
As I was e-mailing an old friend from my corporate days I realized that in all the time I worked I was going head to head with people that I thought that I had to control. It never felt right. It has been since Simple Steps came to be that I’ve connected to my true self…the one that prefers heart to heart relationships.
What are you doing now that just doesn’t feel right to you? Are you in a relationship that makes you feel less than you are? Are you working at a job that doesn’t energize you? Perhaps you are playing an instrument when you would rather be writing your first novel?
If what you are doing doesn’t feel good to you then you are not on the path to happiness. Try these Simple Steps to redirect your energy:
- Create a 3 column list. In one column write down what you love to do and are actually doing it. In the next column write what you love to do and aren’t doing it. In the last column write down what you are doing that doesn’t feel good to you.
- Look at the items in the last column... the ones that don't feel good. Cross out anything that you can stop right now. Stop doing them! For items that you can’t stop immediately decide what items from your other 2 columns that you could substitute for them.
- Pick one of these items to change and devise your conversion plan. If it means you need to learn a new skill look into schools or mentors who can help you. Use you evenings learning those skills. When you are ready then convert!
Whatever you choose to do…remember that it is YOUR choice! No one gets to decide what makes you happy. That is entirely up to you. And when you redirect your energy to what makes you happy… that feels good!



